The hardest thing is to convince them there is real danger.
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Truth. Got someone I’m working with right now ... “oh he wouldn’t do that” (kill her). The red warning flags are all over the place .... she ‘knows’ because I’ve told her in the most blunt/stark language possible, but she just can’t believe it. He also has guns, which increases her risk of being killed by more than 1000%.
There is, he or she thinks they OWN YOU.
Take them to a battered woman meeting, listen to the stories.
Look how great Nicolle and OJ did, screaming and yelling through court orders and slit throats.