This is the typical shaming on anyone who says this. Its really disgusting from men though. Totally whipped simps.
If it means more for those not abstaining, why do you care, much less insult those not doing it?
When somebody passes bogus or harmful advice, they should expect some blowback.
The lesson men should learn is that ladies are people - they have their own personalities, intelligence, and expectations for life. They are wonderful but we should expect to give as much as we get. We have had several generations of functionally defective male attitudes that women are expected to be mindless, decorative playthings and then provide home services for the rest of their lives. Not a real recipe for success.
If you go into a marriage realizing that you are marrying a valuable partner and that to make your union successful, both of you have to watch each other and adjust to accommodate each other's development and needs, you will do wonderfully and the marriage will be an enormous increase to the value of both of your lives together.
Think that life should mirror Playboy's advice column and you will paying a buttload of alimony and child support, forever.
Your advice is to just quit - and that's idiotic and a design for a failed life. If you have failed, don't pass your failings to others advice for the direction of their lives.