It’s how they weed out the bad ones. I had two older brothers and used to overhear their friends discuss the females they were going out with. Most females would be shocked to know how they are talked about. Their dads should warn them.
I used to work in a conveniene store full-time.
On Fri and Sat nights, clubbing women would come into my store and talk in front of me as if I wasn’t there while they were making their purchases.
Believe me when I say this, no half-decent man would have the type of conversation that these women had. They were forthright in talking about which men were well-endowed and which mean weren’t as well as rating the skills that each men possessed and everything.
Your brothers, I can almost guarantee you, were choir boys in comparison to the women who were coming into my store and the coversations they had.
Maybe the older women showed discretion amongst themselves, but the younger ones don’t.