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Life Moves Pretty Fast: Why Gen-X “Got it” Before the Rest of You
GoodMenProject ^ | 10.16.2022 | Kara

Posted on 10/19/2022 4:39:50 PM PDT by libh8er

Look, we have heard all the jokes. We know how you talk about us. And now you are saying there might never be a Gen-X President (as if Donald Trump did some sort of credit to his generation in that role).

The thing is, WE DON’T CARE. You know this about us. Because we get it, and you likely don’t.

We have been described as some kind of neglected middle child between boomers and the Millennials, but we are not your mother’s Jan Brady (or our own, frankly). We were the first generation to experience a high volume of moms working outside the home, divorced parents and friends coming safely out of the closet. We were the last generation to have a technology free childhood and to learn patience waiting for Saturday morning cartoons or a favorite song to come on the radio.

We were the first generation to write papers on computers and the last generation to use typewriters. We were the last generation to know a time when a missed call was a missed call and the first generation to play video games. We were the last generation who spent a largely unsupervised childhood on dangerous playground equipment.

We were the first generation to grow up with the diversity of Sesame Street, the lessons in community from Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood and the brilliant bonkers of Electric Company.

We GET IT.

Our unique positioning in history gave us a perspective that some of you are still struggling to understand—and this spans ALL generations, not just those older than us. Because some of you who are younger than we are just don’t get what it was like BEFORE we came along and some of you who are older than us refuse to process new information, So let me break this down for you—we did a LOT of heavy lifting so you all didn’t have to.

And we’re exhausted.

You know that statistic that people love to quote (even if it is no longer true?) You know, the one about 50% of marriages ending in divorce? Yeah, well—that was OUR parents. So we “got” that marriage was a social construct and not a holy mandate WAY before the rest of you.

The first openly gay TV character appeared during our childhoods. Ditto for the first openly gay elected official. AIDS was first detected as we were entering our adolescence and sexual awakening years–we were the first generation to become sexually active with this specter over our heads.

“Roots” was first aired during our childhoods. We were the generation that grew up watching “The Jeffersons”, “What’s Happening”, “Good Times” and “Sanford and Son”. We were the first kids who grew up in a country with civil rights laws.

We were the first generation to grow up back when Roe v. Wade was the law of the land. Not that we took it for granted; we marched (yes, I personally) in D.C. in 1989 in what was at the time one of the largest political rallies in U.S. history..

We were the first generation that grew up knowing Mom could bring home the bacon.

We were the MTV Generation; our teenage years were flooded with images of gender fluid icons like Bowie, Boy George, Grace Jones and Prince.

We were the first generation that saw men and women enrolled in college in equal numbers.

We were the first generation to be taught about environmental sustainability from a young age – that’s recycling and land management to global warming. We are the generation MOST likely to consider sustainability factors when investing.

WE. GET. IT.

Our childhoods featured the end of the Vietnam War, the Watergate scandal, Three Mile Island meltdown, the Jonestown massacre, and Iranian hostage crisis. We waited in the backseat of the car for hours just to get gas.

Our teenage years saw the Challenger disaster, Exxon Valdez oil tanker spill, and the Fall of the Berlin Wall.

As young adults, we were in the cross hairs of Operation Desert Storm.

When 9/11 happened, we were most of the boots on the ground. We were many of the victims.

We were the last generation to graduate from high school before the escalation of school shootings began and the first generation to send our children into schools with this threat hanging over us as the norm.

Trickle Down Economics (the other big lie) destroyed the middle class before we even had our sea legs underneath us. We are the first American generation who have not improved on our parent’s financial situation because wages stagnated while inflation skyrocketed. We were the last generation to get an affordable college education.

Gen-X broke new ground in music (RIP Kurt Cobain and Tupac Shakur), comedy (Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, Tina Fey, Jon Stewart, Mindy Kaling), innovation (Elon Musk, Sergey Brin & Larry Page, ), athletics (Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, Venus and Serena Williams), journalism (Julian Assange, Anderson Cooper), film and TV (Joss Whedon, Kevin Williamson, JJ Abrams, Wes Anderson) and where would we be without John Cusack, Julia Roberts, Robert Downey Jr, Christian Bale, Will Smith, Ryan Gosling, Christina Ricci, Uma Thurman, Drew Barrymore and literally 100s of others of what will most likely be the final generation of true Hollywood stars.

And the children we have raised are groundbreakers–rejecting gender stereotypes, patriarchal rule and systemic discrimination in very loud voices. They GET that race, gender and even heterosexuality are social constructs.

We raised them this way because WE GET IT.

And while you were making those “you want fries with that?” jokes about us, we were quietly living up to one of the anthems of our youth: Everybody Wants to Rule the World.

We did it so quietly, you never even noticed. We barely noticed ourselves. Because we were just being who we are.

If you doubt any of what I am saying here, you can just Google it. Thanks to Gen X.

And now we can unapologetically say–YOU’RE WELCOME.

And if you don’t know why, it’s just because you don’t get it.


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To: libh8er

I get it. Another self-appointed spokesperson who thinks history began when she was born. Like narcissistic people of every generation since idk, ancient greece.


61 posted on 10/19/2022 5:21:26 PM PDT by hinckley buzzard ( Resist the narrative.rational spokesperson who thinks history began whe she was born.)
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To: Billthedrill
No generation gets it, they all suck, numbers and pathetic representatives don't lie. The last generation in the US that was sort of decent (Most members of that younger crowd i.e. Hamilton/Jefferson/Madison/Adams/Monroe/Henry etc... basically could not stand each other) was the one who turned British North America into the United States.
62 posted on 10/19/2022 5:27:06 PM PDT by rollo tomasi
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To: FLT-bird

We were also the last generation to learn how to drive a “stick”(manual transmission) car.


63 posted on 10/19/2022 5:27:12 PM PDT by DallasBiff (Kamala is not the sharpest knife in the drawer)
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To: ClearCase_guy

Agreed. Every generation has its impacts. Good, and Bad.


64 posted on 10/19/2022 5:30:14 PM PDT by MotorCityBuck ( Keep the change, you filthy animal! )
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To: lizma2
“My brothers and I were my parents TV remotes!”

Using pliers to change channels because somebody broke the knob.

65 posted on 10/19/2022 5:30:43 PM PDT by Flag_This
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To: libh8er

People of each generation complain but Generation X has the tragic distinction of being the first generation to be targeted with legalized abortion.


66 posted on 10/19/2022 5:31:48 PM PDT by T.B. Yoits
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To: Flag_This

Using a coat hanger for a UHF antenna because the rabbit ears broke off.


67 posted on 10/19/2022 5:31:54 PM PDT by SamAdams76 (4,315,032 active user on Truth Social)
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To: libh8er
"We have been described as some kind of neglected middle [mental] child between boomers and the Millennials,..."

68 posted on 10/19/2022 5:33:02 PM PDT by familyop ("For they that sleep with dogs, shall rise with fleas" (John Webster, "The White Devil" 1612).)
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To: EEGator

I read an article that said the early millennials were more like Gen X and didn’t even like the Millennial nonsense.


69 posted on 10/19/2022 5:33:29 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: libh8er
Is the title a Ferris Beuller reference?
70 posted on 10/19/2022 5:34:49 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: libh8er

They were alright, until so many of them forgot Nancy Reagan’s advice to “just say no to drugs.”


71 posted on 10/19/2022 5:35:40 PM PDT by familyop ("For they that sleep with dogs, shall rise with fleas" (John Webster, "The White Devil" 1612).)
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To: nickcarraway

The dude at my work we called Millennial was not some woke d-bag.
He was more like us. We were Philly IBEW guys.


72 posted on 10/19/2022 5:40:05 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: GaltAdonis
"In 1968 I was four years old."

If my oldest son had been born in 1964, we would have both been baby boomers. I keep reminding him how old he's getting.

73 posted on 10/19/2022 5:43:02 PM PDT by mass55th ("Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway." ~~ John Wayne )
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To: EEGator

My friend worked at a company and her boss would always say, “I’m a Millennial, so I...” But she looked into it and he was born in 1977 and wasn’t a Millennial. But he pretended to be a Millenial. Most likely because employers treat Millenials the best. [And Gen X the worst.]


74 posted on 10/19/2022 5:43:17 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: DallasBiff

I’ve never owned anything but a stick. I did my research and found the make and model of the car I wanted in January when my car died. I found out they stopped making it in stick 2 years ago.

So I bought a used one that was - of course - stick.

On a side note, stick shift is only dying in America. 85% of the cars sold in Europe are stick shift. In fact most of the rest of the world drives stick shift. Its only in North America where automatics are so dominant (95%).


75 posted on 10/19/2022 5:44:24 PM PDT by FLT-bird
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To: libh8er

Progressive bullshit is timeless, apparently.

Steve Dallas is amused.


76 posted on 10/19/2022 5:45:07 PM PDT by Dead Dog
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To: DallasBiff

Did the Xers learn to write in cursive? Or were the boomers the last to learn it?


77 posted on 10/19/2022 5:45:34 PM PDT by skeeter
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To: GaltAdonis
I consider myself to be the LAST baby-boomer - (born 1964).

I made boomer by less than 3 weeks.

Whew!

78 posted on 10/19/2022 5:45:34 PM PDT by seowulf (Civilization begins with order, grows with liberty, and dies with chaos...Will Durant)
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To: nickcarraway

That job I spoke of, I was rode like a horse.
I didn’t get more pay, just more, and the worst, jobs given to me.
Excelling in a union job is pointless.
I’m no longer union.


79 posted on 10/19/2022 5:46:38 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: mass55th

Why would you thank the God who said be fruitful and multiply for not blessing you with grandchildren? The world may be getting worse in the macro sense but at the level of eating and being fairly safe inside your home the world has never been better than it is right now. The crap that people worry about would be inconsequential if they lived in India or Somalia.


80 posted on 10/19/2022 5:46:49 PM PDT by webheart
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