Faith? Will the kids be raised by the wife, by both, or by daycare? Is each spouse capable of gratitude? Can each one apologize if they are wrong? Is your spouse trying to keep learning and maturing — are they going to be a finer person 30 years from now than they are today? Are they trustworthy and self-sacrificing?
I read an article about a divorce mediator years ago who observed that marriages fail because one or both are being selfish. I think there is much truth to this.
The are great questions. Thanks for sharing.