If my kid he does not see 13.
My sons saw their cousin hit his mother when visiting their home. I asked them what did they think would happen to them if they ever tried that in our home. My son said we wouldn’t dare even think about it or we’d find our faces hard up against the wall. I replyed but we’ve never done such a thing - at which He said that’s because you put the fear of God in us to know better than to mess with our parents.