My ex made sure to give my daughter a cell phone and no restrictions. All of a sudden, the child had an unlimited number of strange influences in contact with her, every day and night. As the father in a divorce (defendant), I had no say in any of this and only control every other weekend. Lucky she is alive and grew to adulthood and maturity. In a few months, she will have a Ph.D. and no debt.
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