“the warning is often due to adult survivor children with at least 2 sets of parents”
When I was single I had a rule: Never date a man with children! And I never did. I don’t have any and figured that life and marriage are hard enough already. Bringing that unknown into the equation seemed like a terrible idea.
The man I married had no kids and it was too late age-wise to think about that. So we have cats.
I was thinking only of the children when they were little. I never went farther to consider adult children and those dynamics. Sounds even worse than little kids.
” was thinking only of the children when they were little. I never went farther to consider adult children and those dynamics. Sounds even worse than little kids.”
From what we see re people dating and marrying a previously married individual with adult children basically doesn’t work for the couple getting re married.
The battles and hard feelings with the adult children seem to last forever