Has she not heard if the morning after pill? I don’t believe that constitutes an abortion.
Is this what someone should have done before you were born?
Life is a special gift from God produced by a Mother and Father. we should not causally take an innocent life and expect no repercussions.
To me taking a pill to kill an innocent life is the same as murder or abortion.
Accept God’s love for you as His adopted daughter and return the love.