It is better to say I”m GAY...
If you’re gay AND black, then you’re a shoo-in.
‘It is better to say I”m GAY...’
I know a friend who has used that same ploy, and you’d be amazed at how attitudes change when you play a trump card.
And in this situation, I’m going to step up and say she should confront her “friend.” Don’t be passive-aggressive, if she was your friend, confront her privately.