[IYAS9YAS]

“I identify as female, but I’m more of a bigender person,” Helms says. “This allows my brain to float between multiple worlds, or solidly take on one role or another. Sometimes I am a man and a woman at the same time, or I can change in a nanosecond, then change back just as fast.”

No, you're a loon who, in your own loony way, must attempt to force others to live in your looniness, instead you dealing with the fact you're a loon and shouldn't be allowed in society.

[metmom]

So no matter what pronoun you use for him/her/it, you are always wrong and can always be accused of a hate crime.