My wife doesn’t wear high heels because even lowish ones make her tower over me.
She’s that sweet!
You’ve made a more important distinction than high heels are great or they’re undesirable. Male or female, it’s respectful and sweet to try to present ourselves in a way that our chosen one finds attractive, whether that be blue jeans or Louboutins, and to continue to make an effort to do so even after we’ve snagged them. Otherwise, it’s bait and switch.