It's OK because two hydrogens get to gang up on one oxygen for a neutral, equitable outcome.
That is so unfair. 2 on 1! That should be equitable without ganging up in an obvious racist and sexist attack. Will need to pass some legislation about this horrific abuse: form a new study committee, write a white paper, hold hearings, get testimony from both and other interested parties, write a bill and put on Floor for a vote.