” but reality doesn’t change simply because you wish it so.”
True, but only people understood you, they would all agree with you regardless of reality.
Again, you try to make it about me. I want people to be objective and to not simply accept something because someone told it to them.
People would not agree with me regardless of reality, they would simply acknowledge the same reality that we can all see if we just look at it.
It has nothing to do with me.
If I thought men could turn into women, I would be wrong. I don't believe that, and neither should anyone else.
And for the same reason, I don't think a grave display can be "rubbish" on one grave, but not on another. I believe there is an objective standard for all things that we see, and if it requires a subjective perspective to get the "right" answer, it's just wrong.