If Ms. Perry watched social media she would realize that advice will never work in today's environment. With online dating and social media, one sees the Pareto Principle in effect; 80% of women are chasing 20% or less of men. That 20% of men is based almost entirely on looks; the manosphere term is Black Pill. In such an environment, female promiscuity might be the only strategy that has a chance as Chad will leave if she is not putting out.
Mark Steyn’s brilliant observation is that feminism could only have been invented by 12 year old boys.
It doesn’t benefit anyone. I have no idea how to help people in their 20s or younger with regards to dating. The social dynamics are so distorted beyond recognition for both sexes. A lot of people I know just get the feeling that they got on the last helicopter out of Saigon when they look at how things are for young people.
A liberal feminist who gets it. Because she is smart, honest, and not self-deceived......
Women’s sexual freedom is the worst thing that ever happened to women - and men. One of the biggest lies ever.
It took away from us virtuous women who simply want to be what and who God made them to be.
Fortunately there are wonderful godly Christian girls who have refused to buy into the lie. And men too.
Kind of loses steam towards the end of the article. ‘Would-be rapists need to be imprisoned’, etc.
Liberalism got use where we are today, plain and simple.
A long overdue reveal
I grew up on the cusp of the ‘so called women’s movement’ but had a deep Christian, conservative foundation….
I really did keep in mind ‘ would this embarrass or hurt my dad’
Today and through the past 30, 40 years, many girls have no dad around to ‘embarrass’…..have no foundation……have no guidance, no role models
I feel deeply sorry for them
They have allowed feminists to cheapen them…..and cast them off
The hook up generation is to be pitied….especially the women
There are many types of sexual disease to be caught and women’s bodies aren’t designed for what they subject it to.
Yeah, they have freedom…….
….and they have diseases, broken relationships and marriage, and our nation has over 60 million aborted babie
If I sound like the often made fun of ‘ church lady’…I guess I am
Look at the “chick porn” books (romance novels). How often do you see “George from accounting” as the subject of the women’s desires?
Women in their 20’s think they can party with the Alpha Males until they are in their 30s, and then find some affluent sucker to marry them.
Sorry girls, if you want a good husband you must find him in your 20s, ideally in your early 20s. Good men are not going to be interested in leftovers.
Leftists always name things the opposite of what they really are, because they have to. What they call feminism is actually masculinism.
Feminism lowered the bar by giving women the choice to make many bad decisions. Loser men have taken advantage, big time. Genie is out of the bottle.
It hasn’t helped men either, unless your goal for life is just having lots of sex. Most guys mature out of any wild-oats phase.
If you don’t, you’re going to be sorry when you’re old.
It carved out a cultural pathway for women to emulate male behavior in regard to sex, by ignoring our natural, biologically driven differences. It undermined and eventually eroded the trust between men and women that historically led to courtship, marriage, and stable families.
It was no accident. The New World Order cannot be realized if men and women fall in love, marry and have happy, well-adjusted offspring. So society and culture had to be distorted to reflect what would become the new reality, which is distrust and discord between the sexes, the distortion of male and female.
The article makes the case that the sexual revolution has been a disaster for women. It should also be acknowledged that it has had the same effect on those men who love and respect women. For them, it has created confusion and uncertainty. A terrible, but intentional, state of affairs.
>>feminism is about giving women choice<<
Women want the freedom to make their own choices.
And for the men around them to be obligated to save them from all the bad choices they make.
Feminists are the poster child of stupidity and naivete.
They managed to make one of their most valuable commodities in the eyes of men, their sex, worthless, by giving it away for free.
They have done a huge disservice to women, the family and the children... and thus, society.
Part of the attraction of women is their mystery and modesty. When they try to be coarse or vulgar, or act like a player, it both demeans and confers trashiness upon them. And like it or not, women more often than not want to be valued and adored no matter how hard they pretend to be “like a man”. The effect of free sex and one night stands on women is vastly different, despite what the feminists insist is simply freedom.