My doctor would never come straight out and tell me My weight was causing me health problems, he always beat around the bush throwing out medical terms and trying to be pc for fear of insulting me I think, but if he’d just come out and say, Hey, yer fat, yer 30 lbs overweight and it’s affecting your health, I may not be in the state I’m in today.
Mine was a little more direct, after admitting she needed to do the same. I was told I needed to put less food on my plate, and slow down my eating speed, I wasn’t in a race to clear the plate.