“I’d suggest to you that back in the day when we had a much healthier culture, far fewer than a third of “dates” ended with the guy initiating sex.”
A kiss on the cheek and a warm, “I had a good time, may I see you again?” was pretty much it. And even on the rare occasion when I was invited in for a “nightcap”, unless the date was going in the direction of a night of debauchery, I would usually turn the invitation down.
In my kids fraternity, when they hosted parties, every frat member had to sign a pledge that they will behave themselves as gentlemen over the course of the evening and that any frat member who may hook up had to introduce the girl to the frat leadership to ensure neither were trashed and both understood what they were about to engage in.
More than once, my kid, who was frat president presented to frat leadership a recommendation to remove someone from the frat for ungentlemanly behavior.
Interesting. What was your kid’s decade in the frat?