Bob, you heard it wrong...
“My understanding is that if you don’t punch and choke in Los Angeles during sex, you will be subject to charges. Am I wrong?”
Yes, CA law states slap and small belt while restrained.
Sorry FR, it’s California
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“Yes, CA law states slap and small belt while restrained.”
I think that was my problem when I lived there - just couldn’t get into the S&M scene...so I had to move to Texas.