when I was growing up, we had a constant stream of down on their luck friends staying at our house while they straightened their lives out. Most did great except the alcoholics. One of my moms old friends went wild while parents were on vacation and literally drank up our entire very sizable booze cabinet. Amazing she could even live through that. It was different back then - good people going through tough times. Today, it’s more dirt bag parasites living off of the government as a lifestyle choice.
As a person, I’m pretty generous. In concept, I have no problem with letting people stay at my place for as long as they need to do so, as long as they are getting their act together. Unfortunately, that mentality will get you killed now.
Churches need to adapt.