I am doing forestry work for a fellow just like that.
He gets on one thing and can not, think ahead. The nest moment, he is all over the place and nearly always making the wrong decisions in a panic after he realizes that he messed up.
I cant deal with it and told him he needs to get help. He has not and I wont work with/alongside with him.
I believe some of it came from his upbringing. Raised up getting everything he wanted from his parents.
That wasn’t me.
I would do crazy levels of risk management. Then, usually make the right decision.
That was in my career—which moved along great. My personal life was a mess.
Getting help and modest treatment, I was able to correct the balance.
I always tell people to not wait on getting assessed by professionals. It enhances the good qualities and helps you understand the bad parts.