No mention of a father, mother of 4, in an alien culture - She’s Salvadoran. Probably very poorly educated, from her standpoint the school was full of well-meaning “experts”. She probably had no money to take her kid elsewhere even to move. Homeschooling is probably an alien concept to her.
The blame lies with California culture, the school system, and the freak who coached Yaeli. This woman is just another victim caught up in the maelstorm of California Wokeist\Leftist culture. It ground her and her child up!
None of us know the full story and we’re not likely to!
I agree blaming the mother is a cop out IMO.
I wouldn’t call a mother who buys male clothing for her daughter “to help her’” guiltless in this entire episode.