Sorry, I should have included that path again. :)
To shut off:
Menu/system settings/startup apps/update manager in list-toggle off
To set as auto:
Click update manager icon/edit/preferences/automation/apply updates automatically-toggle on
Thanks, ill do,that when I get back to Computer. I might do,the automatic though, or just do updates like every couple of months and just set some time aside for it (I usually,watch a classic movie every night, so,it can ru. While I watch the movie.)
I,really really hope though that updates don’t become as aggravating as windows 7 updates were. So,far its just a minor aggravation witn Linux hope it gets better