I’m aware you’re trying to correct me. I’ll think of that in the future.
My point was especially that her living alone and not getting help basically “lessens” the importance of COVID. Not sure that fits your definition.
Either way my reply was meant to describe that she did indeed have factors that seem to make things worse.
Ah, I see! It is, indeed, difficult to choose the right word when the right word depends solely upon the actual intent of your statement - i.e., whether you are trying to exculpate COVID or inculpate various other factors.
"Extenuating" circumstances are usually cited by a defense attorney in providing an "excuse" for his client and thus lessening his guilt.
It does, indeed, depend upon your point of view here!
And sorry if I seemed to be lecturing you! (I probably was!)
Regards,