"Sorry. He/She/It may be a nice person, someone who I would associate with and accept them for who they are at face value, but physically, they are not attractive. I would not tell them they are attractive. If they asked me, I would say frankly to them, you may have an attractive personality and I would associate and respect you as a person, but...you are not a physically attractive person. If you or your associates wish to delude yourselves, I won't play along."
It is like entertainment, media, or the government trying to force you, as a normal male, to see a 300 lb woman as sexually attractive. Sorry. It won't work, and like so many liberal delusions, if they wish to play that game, power to them.
But it isn't reality.
Imagine having to gush over the likes of her. She looks like someone who would smell very bad.
Being a Democrat must involve dealing with a little bit of throw up in your throat all the time.