My poor daughter! I worked hard to cram my way of thinking into her when she was very little. And it worked! I didn’t necessarily tell her what to think. I pointed out things and asked a ton of questions. I knew when she would be challenged later in life she would need to know how to think for herself without me. I don’t know how to turn a kid around when they are older except to not support them financially so that reality hits them in the face. These kids have been so coddled and sheltered they think the world is soft and cushy. We can’t add to that if we care about them. We had to do that with my brother too and he has turned around a little. We are still working on him. Good luck!!!
I stopped because we were just arguing.