My youngest brother was homosexual, but I never knew until after his death (at 41 years old). He had lived in San Francisco for a dozen or more years, not married. It never dawned on me that he might be queer. He didn't have the faggy aura.
“San Francisco”
Had a cousin who lived in San Francisco. Second of four children. Difficult time in his early childhood. Father, taking on more responsibility, traveling salesman. Kind of an open secret cousin’s gay. Kind of a more sensitive male. But his mother, late father, three other siblings are very religious. Incessant prayer. This cousin left San Francisco a few years ago and came back to Kettering, Ohio. Apparently sick of the lifestyle. Nephew’s a FSSP priest. Prayer works. We don’t know another’s wounds and challenges. Never despair. Have great hope for your brother because the Savior is SO MERCIFUL.