In my experience those with the least connection to the military are the most eager to want us to resort to war.
Wars have a habit of spinning wildly out of control. Ukraine is historically connected to Russia. It is not in NATO and NATO doesn’t want them. Russia will make sure this is a blood bath if some fools get us into a war right on their doorstep.
Once again NO ONE except Russia is planning on a war. And all the talk about independent countries that Russia is somehow allowed to invade is nonsense, similar to Hitler before WWII.
We have lots of independent countries all around us and as shoes in Europe and Asia and it never occurs to us to invade them because their “ours”.
Again, not wanting a war with Russia is completely different from making excuses for Russia.