“Sorry, the woman should be identified and fired. It takes two to tango.”
I worked at Honeywell back in the ‘80’s. I saw my boss’ boss, who was married, chase his secretary around the desk. She slept with him in the hopes it would cool the whole thing down. It didn’t and she quit. There were affairs all the time and when they came out, the woman was the one fired. The only time they were both fired was when a woman’s husband showed up at midnight with a pump 12 ga and politely asked the guard, “Where’s Lolla?” The guard responded, “Beam Q47.” (He didn’t even lie.) THEN, they fired both of them. (She was out in the man’s van boinking. The Sheriff’s deputies arrested the man without incident.) A fellow female employee said to me in shock, “I can’t believe they fired him too!”
Back in those days women had enough dignity to look down on a female who boinked a Married Man.
The man is , of course , equally to blame... But women know the power of the P.