Can’t say that I ever have. When one gets on in years, one’s wife puts on weight, and that must be tolerated. Especially if you’re fat, too. But to be into flab? Yuck.
I’m single, unfortunately. I was in a single’s chat room some time ago with a lady who declared she was (morbidly) obese, at least a deuce and a half. There was another man in the room who openly declared his love for females of her size and he got extra flirty with her. I had made it plain I prefer petite (or at least athletic) types (my former fiancée did not even weigh 90 lbs). But this big gal kept flirting with me and trying to “get away” from the man who appreciated her heft.
It was totally baffling to me. I was thinking, “Honey, this guy LOVES you. You’re a supermodel to him. Why are you trying to get away from him to try to entice me when I’m not only not interested, but actually rather repulsed ?” Then again, maybe she wanted a guy who would encourage her to lose weight or get healthier rather than a guy who got a boner counting every one of her fat rolls ? Que sera sera.