I hate this part of the narrative “of course it’s a woman’s right to choose.”
Yes. She could have chosen to abstain until she was ready to have a child with a man she trusted.
Men should also abstain until they’re ready to be married to a woman they want to raise their children. Best way for a man to avoid this heartache.
Had a friend in the Army that killed himself when his wife killed their child because she didn’t want a baby while he was deployed.
When I found him he left a note, “You killed me when you killed our baby. I hope it was worth it, enjoy your life alone.”