A lot of “Hot/Crazy Matrix” posts recently…
How many times can one person be Winston Smith?
I worked for Verizon Wireless and we were not allowed to share phone call logs or anything like that with the client, even if they were on the account or owned the account. They were supposed to get the information themselves from the website, which was easy. The reason was because VZW had gotten threatened with lawsuits, or was actually sued, because spouses would confront each other over who they were calling.
If you do not trust a “partner,” leave the relationship.
Nobody “owns” anybody.
Spying is destructive and nothing good comes from it.
Confrontation is a reaction of hate. It is not a solution.
The solution is to find somebody you CAN trust.
She needs to get a life. Good thing the ex got away.