You’re forgiven! BTW I’m a old dudette. :-)
True story, I am an IT guy. Ever since the Dell guy started saying, “Dude You’re Getting a Dell” I been calling everyone one Dude no matter the sex. ;^)
Poor dude was arrested for a small amount of pot and blacklisted in the entertainment community. Never to work again. Amazing considering all the sins of Actors nowadays that have been exposed.