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To: married21
"I have a few female friends who never married bc the men they met wanted them to “put out” but they were shy Christian women who were earnestly saving themselves for marriage like God wanted them to. Kinda average looking, but great hearts. Pushing 60 now. They would have been loving wives and mothers."

Sad but maybe if they had "put out" for someone they thought was otherwise a good man maybe things would have worked out differently. These women wanted the men to take a chance on them but did not want to take the same chance themselves. Christianity is a guide for life its not a stone cold law. If they missed out on a companion for life it's on them not the entire opposite sex.

18 posted on 11/08/2021 1:05:36 PM PST by precisionshootist
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To: precisionshootist; married21

When a woman sleeps around, she’s considered a slut. When a guy sleeps around, it’s boys will be boys.

Men want morally and sexually pure women? Well, guess what guys? It works both ways. Women want that from men, too.

God expects moral purity from men as well as women.

A man has NO business complaining about not finding a good wife when he expects her to compromise her values before marriage. And no woman worth marrying is interested in a man who is willing to demand she compromise herself.

And women are not stupid either. They know the chances of him hitting the road after she puts out are very high. It happens far too often.


42 posted on 11/08/2021 2:31:14 PM PST by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith)
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To: precisionshootist

Put out and being a Christian don’t jive. You either practice your faith or go to hell. Never blame a Christian for keeping the faith!


57 posted on 11/08/2021 4:22:49 PM PST by dragonblustar (2 Peter 2:14,1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
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