Well it generally takes 6 weeks before masks are dropped if someone is wearing one....and that long to scratch the surface of what a person is about.
Dating is fun if you don’t just spend you’re time sitting across a table....it’s doing things together that you see and learn about a person. I always want to do some activity going somewhere...there’s a host of things you can do to get to know an individual.
I find going out to dinner boring and uncomfortable. And meeting parents/family shouldn’t come into the picture for quite a long time.
Same here.
I’d rather go hiking or for a long scenic bike ride.
My one daughter vetted guys by going hiking with them. Any guy who started whining about the ordeal was a no go.
I also don’t have a problem meeting the family early on. Better to find out what the potential in law situation is going to be before becoming too emotionally invested in someone.
If the family is cuckoo, then bail because the chances are, aside from marrying into that mess, he is likely to have baggage from being raised by them whether it shows or not.
The big problem with both men and women is that they don’t think. They run by feeling, or lust, and don’t think with the brain in their heads.