This will offend many, but I'd be very hesitant to marry a divorcee. Second marriages have even higher odds of ending in divorce than do first marriages.
These days men, especially men with assets, have to be careful about marriage.
Can't say as I blame you. My first and only husband was a divorcee. He was a philanderer, and I divorced him back in 1979. A few years after the divorce, he married a third time. One two sons who are in their 50's have no idea where he is, and none of us care to know. I raised my kids alone, and never married again, and at 74, I'm grateful each day that I never did. I love my privacy, and my solitude.
My current wife and I have been married nearly twenty years. We had both been recently divorced when we met. My time with her has been the best twenty years of my life. I think everyone is entitled to one marriage mistake. Twice-divorced is a whole different situation, though.