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“The letters mean I’m constantly reliving the day, and that is such a hard space to be in,”

Our son and wife had a son that only survived a short time; crushing. Northwestern Memorial Hospital, among the best.

A mothers group made beautiful outfits, we got hold him for a bit...

1 posted on 09/21/2021 7:49:53 AM PDT by DUMBGRUNT
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To: DUMBGRUNT

Im so sorry for the loss of your grand baby. How very heartbreaking.


2 posted on 09/21/2021 7:54:51 AM PDT by HollyB
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To: DUMBGRUNT

When you don’t have health insurance (like us), this sort of thing doesn’t happen.


3 posted on 09/21/2021 7:56:16 AM PDT by cuban leaf (We killed our economy and damaged our culture. In 2021 we will pine for the salad days of 2020.)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

> she owed the insurer over $257,000 for the bills it accidentally covered for Alexandra’s care after Ms. Lane switched health insurers <

So it’s the insurer’s fault. And the lady evidently acted in good faith. Case closed. The lady owes nothing, IMO.


4 posted on 09/21/2021 7:58:17 AM PDT by Leaning Right (I have already previewed or do not wish to preview this composition.)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

Damn buddy....no words for that.


8 posted on 09/21/2021 8:04:48 AM PDT by DesertRhino (Dogs are called man's best friend. Moslems hate dogs. Add it up....)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

Sorry for your loss.

I hate to read the words “...a dispute between a large hospital and a large insurer, with the patient stuck in the middle.” At least there is a chance that it can get resolved in the patient’s favor.

The only way it could be worse is if it read “...a dispute between a large hospital and GOVERNMENT PROVIDED HEALTH INSURANCE, with the patient stuck in the middle” in which case you would be stuck in Hell for all eternity.

My wife has done absolutely yeoman’s work the past 30 years fighting the insurance companies for correct payment. She has the patience of Job whereas I explode in a rage at the rank stupidity of all the finger pointing, insane rules and regs, the lack of accountability by anybody and the inability to find anybody who will take ownership to resolve conflicts. There’s little I hate more in the world than dealing with insurance companies.


9 posted on 09/21/2021 8:05:31 AM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom ("If I’m going to get my political views from those who chase balls, I’ll ask my dog.")
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To: DUMBGRUNT

I’m so sorry for your loss.


11 posted on 09/21/2021 8:11:49 AM PDT by Jeff Chandler (THE ISSUE IS NEVER THE ISSUE. THE REVOLUTION IS THE ISSUE.)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

So sorry for your loss. I have made some of those bereavement gowns for newborns. Your post reminds me I should do more. I have at least two whole wedding gowns donated to me for that purpose.


13 posted on 09/21/2021 8:14:46 AM PDT by NEMDF
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To: DUMBGRUNT

It’s for things like this that GoFundMe exists.


17 posted on 09/21/2021 8:21:53 AM PDT by I want the USA back (Dethrone the ruling elite. Redistribute their wealth. Take away their power. Annul their privileges.)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

America’s health-care system is a frankenstein of crony-capitalism, bloated bureaucracy, massive government intervention based on socialist ideology.


20 posted on 09/21/2021 8:28:00 AM PDT by PGR88
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To: DUMBGRUNT

Our daughter had a similar experience. Her health insurance plan paid the doctor for a surgical procedure then mysteriously asked for the payment back from the doctor sticking my daughter for the entire bill and then she was hounded by collection companies. We paid a lawyer several thousand dollars to straighten things out but years later she was still being hounded by collection agencies. After a divorce where her former husband refused to help with co-pays for further medical problems she went through bankruptcy. However recently she received a letter from a collection agency about that original bill. That was quickly resolved when she sent them a copy of her bankruptcy.


21 posted on 09/21/2021 8:28:13 AM PDT by The Great RJ ("Socialists are happy until they run out of people's money." Margaret Thatcher)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

Very sorry for loss.


23 posted on 09/21/2021 8:31:47 AM PDT by rrrod (6)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

File a suit against the hospital for $257,000, since the baby caught the infection at the hospital.


42 posted on 09/21/2021 10:53:48 AM PDT by aimhigh (THIS is His commandment . . . . 1 John 3:23)
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To: DUMBGRUNT

The baby’s debt. It died with her.

Sounds cold…but it’s the only way out of this.


45 posted on 09/21/2021 11:55:42 AM PDT by Vermont Lt
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To: DUMBGRUNT

Obamacare never solved this type of problem, because the entire paradigm of health insurance was not removed from being plans established for employers to all plans being large group plans any individuals can join, no matter whom they may or may not be employed with, and employers merely agreeing, or not, cover a certain dollar amount of whatever health insurance plan the individual was in. Then there would never be any need for individuals to be changing health insurance plans just because they were changing employers.

But, that great idea was never even conceived by those who argued for Obamacare nor most of those who opposed it either. Why? Because most folks could not get their minds out of the idea of employers controlling employees health insurance plans and into the idea of employers only controlling how much of their employees’ health insurance premium cost the employer was willing to cover.


47 posted on 09/21/2021 12:31:14 PM PDT by Wuli
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To: DUMBGRUNT

blessings on your son and his wife and you too....so sad....


54 posted on 09/21/2021 1:01:46 PM PDT by cherry
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