A lot of people here know i own a chain a car washes
Which I’m mostly liquidating
I refund 25-30k a year
Just give em their money back or rewash
Depends
It breaks down like this
25% nice well mannered people hard slow to be surly
50% just plain old grumpy and then after they lash out over 2-10 bucks they apologize when I tend to them
25% are simply a lost cause ….nasty people…vile honestly
And that last group is exclusively white including southerners not just demanding yankees
Indians are demanding but don’t yell or curse
Blacks are actually nice contrary to public perception of shoot first
Hispanics always chill
Young people rude usually except if raised right
This forum personally warmth wise falls short of that
I don’t think it’s politics it’s the anonimity of social media and the hustle to appear clever cute or tough
People can be anything here particularly their inner asshole
Freepers more often than not demand sympathy pay some bill they maintain in their heads as to if merited or not
Plus and this is a big one
Freepers are very risk averse
(A rant not directed at you personally )
That certainly fits me. I wouldn't be a combat jouralist. But I can understand the mindset of those who are. But who would drag their spouse and infant into such and environment?
Of course, I feel somewhat the same way about missionaries. I corresponded with one, and it was always his wife or one of his young kids with malaria or something worse. Another had a daughter with river blindness.
Take the risks you want, but don't drag down innocents.