Do you actually know any Catholics who give a rip what their “ leaders” say?
They make their own individual decisions on what is or is not sin.
Its a matter of conscience and not dogma.
No, I don’t. They all agree with Vatican II. But many on FR do not. So for them it is more complicated. They have to first decide it’s OK to disagree with the church leaders, and then decide what they think about the issue.