It’s a domestic violence case, and arrests for domestic violence can happen to any man posting here, based on an accusation by an angry wife or girlfriend. I’d put the judgments on hold until more facts come out.
However, the time line is backwards.
He crashed his car - then walked a relatively short distance to a "family member's home."
My guess - he just wanted a place to hide, they would not let him in, then a mixture of anger and panic caused him to try to kick the door in.