If you don’t know what to tell someone then why post anything at all? Might as well post about the usefulness of screen doors on submarines.
I was pointing out that if he thinks what the white guy did and said was merely "unfortunate" then I'm not going to have much luck explaining why the white guy ended up in cuffs with a mob outside his residence.
Anyone who thinks standing outside screaming that language is "unfortunate" really has no desire to understand what the problem is, IMHO.