[MeneMeneTekelUpharsin]

I asked a woman...one who had suffered at the hands of unfaithful men...why it was not a good idea for a man and a woman to live together and not get married, and, why they did not stay married once they did decide to get married. Here is her response:

A woman who lives with a man without marrying him will come to realize she has a huge problem. She one day realizes he broke the rules by sleeping with her immorally and from then on believes he will break the rules again with another woman. That trust can never be regained.

[Mark17]

I think you are right bro. I am not into this live in thing. I think it prepares people for divorce, more than it prepares them for marriage.