You didn’t mention how government is a huge partner in marriages, especially the Family Courts. That’s just the way the world works in the 21st century.
No; government is out of the marriage business. Since the 1960s, the Supreme Court incrementally legalized every social behavior that weakens or opposes marriage, including distribution of birth control to the unmarried as a test case in their plan to legalize abortion, legal cohabitation (whether renting or buying a house together or shacking up in motels while unmarried), single parenthood without stigma in employment or adoption, and same-sex "marriage", which has diluted the truth of biology and the realities of parenthood.
Government is a huge partner in divorce, not marriage; and in exploitation, not stable, married parenthood. And a huge industry of lawyers, accountants, therapists, social workers, "child advocates" and other hangers-on are profiting massively from the evil that is "no-fault", the divorce system that removes moral accountability from both men and women and reduces marriage to a business deal—yet with few of the protections extended to actual business partners who split.
I agree with some of the above posters that marriage in today's USA can be a very risky deal for men. But it is also a very risky deal for women. Not just the children of divorce, but also society itself bear the greatest costs of the divorce industry.