Don’t couch it.
“hesitate marriage”
Son’t get married. Don’t cohabitate. Don’t get into any relationships. Its a minefield out there for men. And there’s currently no sign it will ever get better. The trend is it will continue to get even worse for men.
I’m 51, and my wife died 2 years ago.
I will NOT get married again.
I will NOT cohabitate with a woman (other than my daughters for now), again.
I went on an actual date last night, that was absolutely the worst first date I’ve ever had. She changed the restaurant, so she could hang with her sister. I ended up paying that bill, because I’m a gentleman. She then wanted to go elsewhere, and being inebriated, I was concerned for her and others’ safety. So, I drove her car with me, her and her sister to this other place. Was supposed to be there an hour, maybe two. Four hours (and 3 drinks for me, interspersed with water), I was done. She’d spent most of the time crying, hiding in the bathroom, or hell I don’t know what.
“You don’t pay a whore for sex, you pay her to leave afterward”.