She wasn't off the rails, she's a whore. She's responsible for what she did. Sorry to pick on you to illustrate a point. I've been reading multiple threads about this situation and a common theme is that she was taken advantage of by this pastor. No doubt the guy is a scumbag, but SHE was the one cheating on her husband. There seems to be a common theme where people want to give a woman a pass for cheating for multiple reasons ranging from "she was depressed" to "she's at her age where she's her horniest". None of that matters, she took the vows and she's a cheating whore, that's it. And to top it off she styles herself as a Christian singer. She's every bit as bad as the so called pastor, worse in my opinion.
Sometimes I think the muslims have it right in the way they deal with cheating wives.
They both had vows with their spouses, but the minister had yet another layer of responsibility of care on behalf of his role in the church.
Strictly, she was the one who broke the most critical relationship.
We all must honor our vows, first.