Everyday people rise above their circumstance. But the Bible does tell us about those that like to have their ears tickled. Sorry that you are of those that don't like criticism, no matter how valid. It is a genuine blessing you've missed out on.
I don’t mind constuctive criticism. Yours wasn’t. Nor was I defending myself, but rather the OP, who did not deserve your armchair psychoanalysis clothed in piety. If you want to lecture people, get a degree and compete for real clients.