They dragged their heels about picking up the car. My sister, a few weeks before she lapsed into a coma told me to stop making any payments on the car. She was pissed they'd given me such a hard time. The last time I talked to Honda, I told them that I lived in another part of the State, and that I had to have her apartment cleared by the end of August when her leased expired, (She died on her birthday, Sept. 2nd), and that if they didn't come to get the car, I was either going to leave it in the parking lot, dump it back at the dealer's where she got it, or just drop it off someplace, and let them find it. They finally came one morning as I was on my way to the hospice house.
Months after she died, they called me about the amount she owed, and I told them they could contact her at Riverside Cemetery on Lake Avenue, in Rochester, New York. They never called back.
I’m sorry about your sister and the grief the dealer gave you. Had they handled this responsibly when you first called them they could have spared themselves a lot of needless effort.