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You’re done.....go run away.....back to Jonah and your pals

You’ve played both your usual Hitler and klan cards.....out of ammo

Your quiver is empty

MOST RACES WORLDWIDE PREFER THEIR KIDS MARRY THEIR OWN KIND

that’s not even debatable...and I’ve had to deal with precisely that with Colombian women and Jewish women....were they racist

Now that I’m older I understand their parents perspective

Besides what do you know about women...no offense

Of course, parents would prefer that their children date and marry those from a similar cultural background. But most can see past that and judge people as individuals.

Besides what do you know about women

You assume to know me better than you do. That's typical of you, I guess. You don't see individuals and judge everyone according to stereotypes.

Can’t tell who’s zooming who here between you and “x”, wardaddy.

So, I figured I’d put what I sent to “x” in a response to you as well (see bottom section of this response).

Men when exposed as verbal abusers of women in relationships are known to have epiphanies and reform themselves. (See Evans, Introduction). Women when similarly exposed NEVER reform. (See also Evans, Introduction. These conclusions are based on Evans’ decades of clinical experience as a life coach.)

So while most verbal abusers in male-female relationships are men, the female victims can reasonably hold out hope that the relationship can eventually be mended and changed into a fruitful one for both parties.

Rarer male victims of female abusers in long-term verbally abusive relationships, however, must face facts. Such relationships, it appears, can never be mended.

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Verbally abusive people tell other people what is going on inside their own minds. In verbally abusive relationships, this is one among many other very specific and brutal techniques used by cruel people to emotionally and psychologically reduce the other person in the relationship over time. Nobody should ever put up with being told what is going on in their own mind or suffer any other torment chatacteristic of a verbally abusive relationship. Nevertheless, these types of relationships between abuser and victim can last decades with the abuse getting worse and worse, but with it never dawning on the victim that that anything is particularly amiss, sometimes simply because they never had any effective basis for comparison. (See Evans, P., “The Verbally Abusive Relationship”, 1992 1st ed.) To use the famous analogy, the person can end up being gradually boiled like the famous frog over nearly half his or her lifetime and never think to escape or seek help. The net effect can be quite disastrous.