Actually, I would understand. I have neither puffed up arrogance nor did I display condescension. I have no issues with your memorial nor a host of other smaller, minimal tattoos of that kind. I do think you have some issues, however. Being judgmental is on top of the list since you accused me based on a knee jerk reaction untethered from the facts at hand.
I repeat myself by saying everyone, even you, pass judgement on others. An old saying comes to mind about glass houses.