I would like to add to that, Kindness
I'm a guy who will be married 45yrs. this June. When I have interactions with other ladies (friendly) I have been told how kind I was.
that’s true too. Everybody loves my hubby!
(PS I’d like to add, live in your own place! Not with your mom, not couch surfing. an apartment, house, trailer, but it’s yours)
unless you are under 20.