It was the South that organized the Confederacy and undertook a violent secession and launched the bloodiest war in American history. Get it right.
There was no violence when the states seceded. The votes to secede were peaceful.
A number of states left the Union before Lincoln was even inaugurated. No violence; not even from the US.
For the most part the shooting started after Lincoln used the Navy to engineer the Gulf of Tonkin Incident.
I mean the Fort Sumter Incident.